"What is it when -- say you have a, like friend. Let's call them... Bubba. And Bubba has started doing something they hate because they think they have to, so you're sad for them, but also the thing they're doing has them spending a lot of time with another of your, um, I guess friends... let's call this one Jorge. And so Bubba and Jorge are, like, always together, doing something they won't do with you, and it feels bad so you get, like, avoidy? And separately you're doing something they'd both hate and not talking to them about it, because it's, like, important that Bubba and Jorge get that Bubba-and-Jorge-and-no, uh, -Mag...tress? Magtress. Magtress time? And it's, like, fine, you're not doing something bad, but you still feel bad about that, too?" Magnus blinks. "You know, hypothetically?"